{"id":581,"date":"2025-07-05T13:11:03","date_gmt":"2025-07-05T10:11:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/?p=581"},"modified":"2025-07-05T13:11:46","modified_gmt":"2025-07-05T10:11:46","slug":"kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Karde\u015f K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Evin i\u00e7inden gelen o tan\u0131d\u0131k ses: &#8220;Anneee! Karde\u015fim yine oyunca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ald\u0131!&#8221;. Bu c\u00fcmlenin ard\u0131ndan y\u00fckselen bir a\u011flama krizi, iti\u015f kak\u0131\u015f ve sizin bir kez daha &#8220;hakem&#8221; rol\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcstlenmek zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, bitmek bilmeyen bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma&#8230; E\u011fer bu sahne size tan\u0131d\u0131k geliyorsa, bilmelisiniz ki yaln\u0131z de\u011filsiniz. Karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131, en sevgi dolu ailelerde bile ya\u015fanan, en sakin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bile bir anda birer canavara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilen, evrensel ve son derece normal bir duygudur. Ancak normal olmas\u0131, y\u00f6netilmesi kolay oldu\u011fu veya ebeveynleri yormad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki, <a href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/\">karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri nelerdir?<\/a> Bu duygu tamamen ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131labilir mi? Yeni do\u011fan bir bebek ve karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 krizi nas\u0131l y\u00f6netilir? Karde\u015fler aras\u0131 kavga an\u0131nda nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmal\u0131? Onlara &#8220;adil&#8221; davranmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken fark\u0131nda olmadan daha m\u0131 \u00e7ok zarar veriyoruz? Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma anlar\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n birbirine d\u00fc\u015fman de\u011fil, hayat boyu en yak\u0131n dost olmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacak birer \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131na nas\u0131l \u00e7evirebiliriz?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu kapsaml\u0131 rehber,<a href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/\"> karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri<\/a> aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda size bir yol haritas\u0131 sunmak i\u00e7in haz\u0131rland\u0131. Bu makalede, <a href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/\">k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n psikolojik k\u00f6kenleri<\/a>ni anlayacak, ebeveyn olarak fark\u0131nda olmadan yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve yang\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fckleyen hatalarla y\u00fczle\u015fecek ve en \u00f6nemlisi, bu zorlu durumu y\u00f6netmek i\u00e7in proaktif (kriz \u00f6ncesi) ve reaktif (kriz an\u0131) onlarca pratik stratejiyi detayl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde inceleyece\u011fiz. Amac\u0131m\u0131z, sizi bir hakem olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na empati, problem \u00e7\u00f6zme ve uzla\u015fma becerileri kazand\u0131ran bilge bir &#8220;arabulucu&#8221; ve &#8220;rehber&#8221; yapmakt\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n, karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri, sadece evdeki g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcy\u00fc azaltmakla kalmaz, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n gelecekteki t\u00fcm sosyal ili\u015fkilerinin temelini atar.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"\u0130\u00e7indekiler Tablosunu A\u00e7\/Kapat\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/#Kiskancligin_Kokleri_%E2%80%93_Cocugum_Neden_Kiskaniyor\" >K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n K\u00f6kleri &#8211; 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(Cool-down Break)<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/#Ozel_Durumlar_Icin_Yol_Haritasi\" >\u00d6zel Durumlar \u0130\u00e7in Yol Haritas\u0131<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-21\" href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/#Yeni_Bir_Bebegin_Gelisi_%E2%80%9CTahtan_Indirilme%E2%80%9D_Krizini_Yonetmek\" >Yeni Bir Bebe\u011fin Geli\u015fi: &#8220;Tahtan \u0130ndirilme&#8221; Krizini Y\u00f6netmek<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-22\" href=\"https:\/\/elmadil.com\/blog\/kardes-kiskancligi-cozumleri\/#Bir_Kriz_Degil_Hayat_Becerileri_Icin_Bir_Firsat\" >Bir Kriz De\u011fil, Hayat Becerileri \u0130\u00e7in Bir F\u0131rsat<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kiskancligin_Kokleri_%E2%80%93_Cocugum_Neden_Kiskaniyor\"><\/span><b>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n K\u00f6kleri &#8211; \u00c7ocu\u011fum Neden K\u0131skan\u0131yor?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Etkili <b>karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri<\/b> \u00fcretebilmek i\u00e7in, \u00f6nce bu duygunun ard\u0131ndaki derin ve genellikle masum nedenleri anlamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CTahttan_Indirilme%E2%80%9D_Travmasi\"><\/span><strong>&#8220;Tahttan \u0130ndirilme&#8221; Travmas\u0131<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u0130lk do\u011fan \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in, yeni bir karde\u015fin geli\u015fi, bir kral\u0131n veya krali\u00e7enin tahttan indirilmesi gibidir. O g\u00fcne kadar anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n ilgisinin, sevgisinin ve zaman\u0131n\u0131n tek sahibi iken, bir anda bu &#8220;krall\u0131\u011f\u0131&#8221; payla\u015fmak zorunda kal\u0131r. Bu, onun i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kay\u0131p, bir terk edilme korkusu ve derin bir de\u011fersizlik hissi yaratabilir. T\u00fcm &#8220;k\u00f6t\u00fc&#8221; davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda genellikle \u015fu basit soru yatar: &#8220;Beni hala eskisi kadar seviyor musunuz?&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kaynak_Paylasimi_Mucadelesi\"><\/span><strong>Kaynak Payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 M\u00fccadelesi<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda, kaynaklar s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu sadece oyuncaklar veya odadaki en g\u00fczel k\u00f6\u015fe demek de\u011fildir. En de\u011ferli ve en s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kaynak, ebeveynin zaman\u0131, dikkati ve sevgisidir. \u00c7ocuklar, bu kayna\u011f\u0131n adil bir \u015fekilde da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131p da\u011f\u0131t\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli olarak \u00f6l\u00e7en birer radar gibidir. Karde\u015fine giden fazladan bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme veya onunla ge\u00e7irilen fazladan be\u015f dakika, kendi pay\u0131ndan \u00e7al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir hazine gibi alg\u0131lanabilir.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kimlik_ve_Farklilasma_Arayisi\"><\/span><strong>Kimlik ve Farkl\u0131la\u015fma Aray\u0131\u015f\u0131<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Her \u00e7ocuk, aile i\u00e7inde kendi \u00f6zel yerini bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. E\u011fer b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuk &#8220;ak\u0131ll\u0131 ve uslu&#8221; ise, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuk dikkat \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in &#8220;yaramaz ve komik&#8221; rol\u00fcn\u00fc benimseyebilir. Karde\u015fler, birbirlerinden farkl\u0131la\u015farak kendi bireysel kimliklerini in\u015fa etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, rekabeti ve k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fckleyebilir.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Adalet_ve_Esitlik_Algisi\"><\/span><strong>Adalet ve E\u015fitlik Alg\u0131s\u0131<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n adalet alg\u0131s\u0131, yeti\u015fkinlerden farkl\u0131 olarak somut ve e\u015fitlik\u00e7idir. &#8220;Ona bir bisk\u00fcvi verdiysen, bana da tam olarak ayn\u0131s\u0131ndan vermelisin&#8221; mant\u0131\u011f\u0131 hakimdir. Ebeveynin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n farkl\u0131 ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na g\u00f6re farkl\u0131 davranmas\u0131n\u0131 (ihtiyaca g\u00f6re adalet) anlamalar\u0131 zaman al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gelisimsel_Donemler\"><\/span><strong>Geli\u015fimsel D\u00f6nemler<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ifade edilme \u015fekli ya\u015fa g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir. 2-4 ya\u015f aras\u0131 bir \u00e7ocuk, yeni do\u011fan karde\u015fini \u00e7imdikleyerek veya oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alarak tepkisini g\u00f6sterirken, okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk daha dolayl\u0131 yollara ba\u015fvurabilir: &#8220;Annem zaten hep Ali&#8217;yi daha \u00e7ok seviyor&#8221; gibi \u015fikayetler veya karde\u015finin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme gibi.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Yangini_Korukleyen_Hatalar_%E2%80%93_Ebeveyn_Tutumlarinin_Etkisi\"><\/span><b>Yang\u0131n\u0131 K\u00f6r\u00fckleyen Hatalar &#8211; Ebeveyn Tutumlar\u0131n\u0131n Etkisi<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Bazen en iyi niyetlerle bile, <b>karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/b>n\u0131 istemeden de olsa biz k\u00f6r\u00fckleyebiliriz. \u0130\u015fte ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken en yayg\u0131n ebeveyn tuzaklar\u0131:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>K\u0131yaslama Yapmak:<\/b> &#8220;Abin\/Ablan ne kadar da uslu, sen neden onun gibi olam\u0131yorsun?&#8221;, &#8220;Karde\u015fin ne g\u00fczel resim yap\u0131yor, seninkine bak!&#8221;. Bu, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini yok eden, karde\u015fine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6fke biriktirmesine neden olan en zehirli hatad\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li><b>Etiketleme:<\/b> &#8220;Sen zaten hep da\u011f\u0131n\u0131ks\u0131n.&#8221;, &#8220;O ailenin sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, sen de sporcususun.&#8221; \u00c7ocuklara bu \u015fekilde roller bi\u00e7mek, onlar\u0131 belirli kal\u0131plara hapseder ve aralar\u0131ndaki rekabeti art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li><b>&#8220;Hakem&#8221; Rol\u00fcn\u00fc \u00dcstlenmek:<\/b> \u00c7ocuklar aras\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kan her kavgaya an\u0131nda m\u00fcdahale edip, &#8220;O oyunca\u011f\u0131 karde\u015fine ver!&#8221;, &#8220;\u0130lk o ba\u015flatt\u0131!&#8221; gibi kararlar vererek sorunu &#8220;\u00e7\u00f6zmek&#8221;, onlar\u0131n kendi problem \u00e7\u00f6zme becerilerini geli\u015ftirmelerini engeller.<\/li>\n<li><b>Adil Olmaya \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken E\u015fit Davranmak:<\/b> Herkese her zaman her \u015feyin ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 vermek adalet de\u011fildir. Adalet, her \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi ihtiyac\u0131na, ya\u015f\u0131na ve geli\u015fim d\u00fczeyine g\u00f6re davranmakt\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li><b>Taraf Tutmak:<\/b> Fark\u0131nda olmadan, genellikle daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck veya daha &#8220;sakin&#8221; oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun taraf\u0131n\u0131 tutmak, di\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun &#8220;haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131m&#8221; hissini peki\u015ftirir ve k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 derinle\u015ftirir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kapsamli_Strateji_Rehberi_Kardes_Kiskancligi_Cozumleri\"><\/span><b>Kapsaml\u0131 Strateji Rehberi: Karde\u015f K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Etkili <b>karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri<\/b>, hem kriz \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce al\u0131nacak proaktif \u00f6nlemleri hem de kriz an\u0131nda uygulanacak reaktif stratejileri i\u00e7erir.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Proaktif_Stratejiler_Kriz_Onleyici_Yaklasimlar\"><\/span><b>Proaktif Stratejiler (Kriz \u00d6nleyici Yakla\u015f\u0131mlar)<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Her_Cocuga_Ozel_%E2%80%9CBirebir%E2%80%9D_Zaman_Ayirmak\"><\/span><strong>Her \u00c7ocu\u011fa \u00d6zel &#8220;Birebir&#8221; Zaman Ay\u0131rmak<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Bu, en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc panzehirdir. Her g\u00fcn, sadece 15-20 dakika bile olsa, her bir \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla tamamen b\u00f6l\u00fcnmemi\u015f, sadece ona \u00f6zel bir zaman ge\u00e7irin. Bu &#8220;\u00f6zel zamanda&#8221; telefonunuzu bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131n ve ilgi oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131z %100 o olsun. Birlikte bir oyun oynay\u0131n, sohbet edin veya sadece sar\u0131l\u0131n. Bu, ona &#8220;Sen benim i\u00e7in e\u015fsizsin ve sana \u00f6zel bir zaman\u0131m her zaman var&#8221; mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verir.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Duygulari_Tanimlamak_ve_Onaylamak\"><\/span><strong>Duygular\u0131 Tan\u0131mlamak ve Onaylamak<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k dahil t\u00fcm duygular normaldir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hissetti\u011finde onu &#8220;Karde\u015fini k\u0131skanmak \u00e7ok ay\u0131p&#8221; diye susturmak yerine, duygusunu isimlendirin ve onaylay\u0131n: &#8220;Yeni bebekle \u00e7ok ilgilendi\u011fim i\u00e7in kendini d\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f ve \u00fczg\u00fcn hissetti\u011fini anl\u0131yorum. Bu \u00e7ok normal bir duygu. Annenin kalbinde ikiniz i\u00e7in de kocaman bir yer var.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kiyaslama_Yerine_Bireysel_Gelisimi_Takdir_Etmek\"><\/span><strong>K\u0131yaslama Yerine Bireysel Geli\u015fimi Takdir Etmek<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Karde\u015fleri birbiriyle de\u011fil, kendileriyle k\u0131yaslay\u0131n. &#8220;Abin senden daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ko\u015fuyor&#8221; demek yerine, &#8220;Ge\u00e7en hafta bu tepeye \u00e7\u0131karken ne kadar zorlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n, \u015fimdi ne kadar kolay \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor musun? Kendini \u00e7ok geli\u015ftirmi\u015fsin!&#8221; deyin.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CBiz_Bir_Takimiz%E2%80%9D_Ruhunu_Asilamak\"><\/span><strong>&#8220;Biz Bir Tak\u0131m\u0131z&#8221; Ruhunu A\u015f\u0131lamak<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Onlar\u0131 birbirine rakip olarak de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 tak\u0131m\u0131n oyuncular\u0131 olarak konumland\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Ortak Hedefler Koyun:<\/b> &#8220;Hadi ikiniz birlikte odan\u0131z\u0131 toplarsan\u0131z, sonra hep beraber parka gidece\u011fiz.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><b>Birbirlerine Yard\u0131m Etmelerini Te\u015fvik Edin:<\/b> &#8220;Ayakkab\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giymesi i\u00e7in karde\u015fine yard\u0131m eder misin, sen bu i\u015fte \u00e7ok iyisin.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><b>Birbirlerinin Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 Kutlay\u0131n:<\/b> Biri okulda bir ba\u015far\u0131 kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, di\u011ferinin de onu tebrik etmesini ve bu ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n &#8220;ailece&#8221; kutlanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Adil_Degil_Ihtiyaca_Gore_Davranmak\"><\/span><strong>Adil De\u011fil, \u0130htiyaca G\u00f6re Davranmak<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za, her birinin farkl\u0131 ya\u015flarda ve farkl\u0131 ihtiya\u00e7larda oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131n. &#8220;Senin 9&#8217;da yatman gerekiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc senin v\u00fccudunun b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in daha \u00e7ok uykuya ihtiyac\u0131 var. Ablan\u0131n ise \u00f6devleri oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in 10&#8217;da yatmas\u0131 gerekiyor. Bu adil olmak demek.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reaktif_Stratejiler_Kriz_Aninda_Mudahale\"><\/span><b>Reaktif Stratejiler (Kriz An\u0131nda M\u00fcdahale)<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>6. Sakin Kal\u0131n ve G\u00fcvenli\u011fi Sa\u011flay\u0131n:<\/p>\n<p>Bir kavga an\u0131nda, sizin sakinli\u011finiz ortam\u0131n sakinle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in ilk ad\u0131md\u0131r. E\u011fer fiziksel bir temas varsa, \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 birbirinden ay\u0131rarak g\u00fcvenli\u011fi sa\u011flay\u0131n. Ba\u011f\u0131rmak veya taraf tutmak, yang\u0131na benzinle gitmektir.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CHakem%E2%80%9D_Degil_%E2%80%9CArabulucu%E2%80%9D_Olun\"><\/span><strong>&#8220;Hakem&#8221; De\u011fil, &#8220;Arabulucu&#8221; Olun<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>G\u00f6reviniz, kimin hakl\u0131 kimin haks\u0131z oldu\u011funa karar vermek de\u011fildir. G\u00f6reviniz, her iki taraf\u0131n da kendini ifade edebilece\u011fi g\u00fcvenli bir ortam yaratmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sorunu_ve_Duygulari_Cocuklara_Geri_Yansitin\"><\/span><strong>Sorunu ve Duygular\u0131 \u00c7ocuklara Geri Yans\u0131t\u0131n<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Yere \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcp onlar\u0131n seviyesine inin ve her birini dinleyin. &#8220;Anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kadar\u0131yla, sen bu arabayla ilk oynamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in s\u0131ran\u0131n sende oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun. (Birinci \u00e7ocu\u011fa d\u00f6nerek) Sen de, uzun zamand\u0131r oynamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in art\u0131k s\u0131ran\u0131n sana geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun ve bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ok k\u0131zg\u0131ns\u0131n. Do\u011fru mu anlad\u0131m?&#8221; Bu, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetmesini sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cozum_Uretmelerini_Tesvik_Edin\"><\/span><strong>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00dcretmelerini Te\u015fvik Edin<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Sorunu siz \u00e7\u00f6zmeyin, onlara \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fcr\u00fcn. &#8220;\u0130kiniz de ayn\u0131 anda ayn\u0131 oyuncakla oynamak istiyorsunuz. Bu ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorun. Bu sorunu kavga etmeden \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in akl\u0131n\u0131za ne gibi fikirler geliyor?&#8221;.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;S\u0131rayla oynayabiliriz.&#8221; (Peki, s\u00fcreyi nas\u0131l belirleyece\u011fiz? Bir zamanlay\u0131c\u0131 kural\u0131m m\u0131?)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Birlikte oynayabiliriz.&#8221; (Harika fikir! Nas\u0131l bir oyun kurabilirsiniz?)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Ba\u015fka bir oyuncakla oynayabilirim.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CSoguma_Molasi%E2%80%9D_Cool-down_Break\"><\/span><strong>&#8220;So\u011fuma Molas\u0131&#8221; (Cool-down Break)<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>E\u011fer duygular \u00e7ok y\u00fckselmi\u015fse ve kimse kimseyi dinlemiyorsa, bir mola vermek en iyisidir. &#8220;\u015eu anda ikiniz de \u00e7ok \u00f6fkelisiniz ve birbirinizi dinleyemiyorsunuz. Herkes kendi odas\u0131nda 5 dakika sakinle\u015fsin, sonra bu konuyu konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in tekrar bir araya gelece\u011fiz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ozel_Durumlar_Icin_Yol_Haritasi\"><\/span><b>\u00d6zel Durumlar \u0130\u00e7in Yol Haritas\u0131<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Yeni_Bir_Bebegin_Gelisi_%E2%80%9CTahtan_Indirilme%E2%80%9D_Krizini_Yonetmek\"><\/span><b>Yeni Bir Bebe\u011fin Geli\u015fi: &#8220;Tahtan \u0130ndirilme&#8221; Krizini Y\u00f6netmek<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Hamilelikte Haz\u0131rl\u0131k:<\/b> Bebe\u011fi, &#8220;sana bir oyun arkada\u015f\u0131 geliyor&#8221; gibi ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan vaatlerle de\u011fil, &#8220;art\u0131k bir abi\/abla olacaks\u0131n, senin yard\u0131m\u0131na ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olacak&#8221; gibi sorumlu ve de\u011ferli hissettiren bir dille tan\u0131t\u0131n. Karde\u015fiyle ilgili kitaplar okuyun.<\/li>\n<li><b>Do\u011fum Sonras\u0131:<\/b> Hastaneden eve geldi\u011finizde, kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bebekle de\u011fil, e\u015finizle veya bo\u015f bir \u015fekilde girin ve \u00f6nce b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuza sar\u0131l\u0131n. Bebe\u011fin, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fa bir &#8220;hediye&#8221; getirdi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek klasik ama etkili bir y\u00f6ntemdir.<\/li>\n<li><b>&#8220;B\u00fcy\u00fck Karde\u015f&#8221; Rol\u00fc:<\/b> Ona, &#8220;bebe\u011fin bezini getirir misin?&#8221;, &#8220;ona \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yler misin?&#8221; gibi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ve yapabilece\u011fi sorumluluklar vererek onu s\u00fcrecin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131 haline getirin.<\/li>\n<li><b>Birebir Zaman:<\/b> Yeni bebekle ilgilenirken, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz 15 dakikal\u0131k \u00f6zel zaman\u0131n kalitesini art\u0131r\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bir_Kriz_Degil_Hayat_Becerileri_Icin_Bir_Firsat\"><\/span><b>Bir Kriz De\u011fil, Hayat Becerileri \u0130\u00e7in Bir F\u0131rsat<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri<\/b>, bu do\u011fal ve ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz duyguyu yok etmeyi de\u011fil, onu y\u00f6netmeyi ve bir \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeyi hedefler. 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